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BEYOND THE GAMES – A REFRESHING TAKE ON DATING FOR 20-SOMETHINGS READY FOR SOMETHING REAL

Dating in your 20s isn’t easy. Between endless swiping, ghosting, and mixed signals, finding someone genuine can feel like a full-time job. If you’re over the superficial small talk and tired of wasting time on people who aren’t serious, you’re not alone—and you’re in the right place.

At Modern Mingle, we offer a smarter, more personal approach to dating for singles in their 20s who are ready to break away from the app culture and meet people face-to-face. Whether you’re new to dating, fresh out of college, or just looking for someone who shares your values and goals, we’ve got you covered.

Every introduction we make is thoughtful and intentional. No fake profiles. No algorithm guessing games. Just real people, real conversations, and real connections.

Why More 20-Somethings in San Antonio Are Turning to Modern Mingle

Modern dating can be chaotic—but it doesn’t have to be. At Modern Mingle, we make it easier to connect with other young adults who are serious about dating and actually show up.

Our process is personal and secure. Every potential match goes through a screening process to ensure they’re authentic, emotionally available, and ready for something meaningful. We only accept members who are truly single, mentally and emotionally mature, and ready to invest in quality connections—not just casual flings.

We also host fun, enjoyable singles events that give you a chance to meet people face-to-face in a relaxed, no-pressure environment—because chemistry is best experienced in real life.

The Modern Mingle Approach To Matching And Age Friendly Singles Events

Screening and Safety

Date and meet other 40-something singles with peace of mind. Our Members' Safety is priority #1. Background Checks and in-person verification.

20+ Singles Events

We Cater to the needs and interests of our Members assuring all have a wonderful time in a comfortable setting.

Results and Service

We care about each of our members and passionately serve each and everyone of them.

If You’re Done With Ghosting, Flaky Dates, and Endless Swiping… We’re Here for You.

Step into a dating experience where you’re seen, heard, and matched with intention.

Modern Mingle – Where meaningful dating starts in your 20s.

WHAT OUR VALUED MEMBERS HAVE TO SAY

“The enthusiasm and personal engagement at the last event was very much appreciated. Many times you don’t know what you might find at a singles event or mixer but the team at Modern Mingle knew what they were doing in terms of hosting and planning their event and made sure everyone was having a good time and ‘mingling’ if you will. I’m looking forward to some of the upcoming events and meeting like-minded singles like myself going forward. We’ll see but feeling optimistic.”

JAMES - Member of Modern Mingle

“I was one of the first people to join Modern Mingle. My experience has been really wonderful. First I must say that Robert and Melanie are THE BEST! They care about every member and take a personal interest to help each person feel relaxed and always have great fun at the events. I have met many really nice quality ladies and gentleman. This is such an easy way to simply meet people like yourself, who want to go out, feel comfortable and meet nice people”

P. Koz - Member of Modern Mingle