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40s Dating in San Antonio

Curated, Confident, Convenient

You’re clear on what works—and what doesn’t. Modern Mingle offers private, curated introductions for 40-somethings who value alignment, discretion, and time well spent. Work with a matchmaker in San Antonio who understands your goals.

Why Work with a Matchmaker in Your 40s

Alignment first: Values, lifestyle, and long-term vision drive every match.
Discreet & efficient: Professional screening reduces mismatches and repeat first dates.
Support when you want it: Conversation refreshers, style guidance, and post-date coaching.
Local focus: Meet high-intent singles in Greater San Antonio.

How Our Matchmaking Works (3 Steps)

Consultation & Profile

Your story, goals, and non-negotiables.

Search & Vetting

We identify aligned candidates and confirm mutual interest.

Introductions & Feedback

Thoughtful dates and refinements until it clicks.

Have friends or family exploring later-life dating? Point them to 50s Dating and Senior Dating.

What You Can Expect

Transparent timelines, realistic expectations, and a process that respects your calendar. From first impressions to follow-through, we help you date with clarity and confidence.

Areas We Serve in San Antonio

Downtown • Pearl • Alamo Heights • Stone Oak • Shavano Park • The Dominion • Alamo Ranch • Boerne • New Braunfels

WHAT OUR VALUED MEMBERS HAVE TO SAY

“The enthusiasm and personal engagement at the last event was very much appreciated. Many times you don’t know what you might find at a singles event or mixer but the team at Modern Mingle knew what they were doing in terms of hosting and planning their event and made sure everyone was having a good time and ‘mingling’ if you will. I’m looking forward to some of the upcoming events and meeting like-minded singles like myself going forward. We’ll see but feeling optimistic.”

JAMES - Member of Modern Mingle

“I was one of the first people to join Modern Mingle. My experience has been really wonderful. First I must say that Robert and Melanie are THE BEST! They care about every member and take a personal interest to help each person feel relaxed and always have great fun at the events. I have met many really nice quality ladies and gentleman. This is such an easy way to simply meet people like yourself, who want to go out, feel comfortable and meet nice people”

P. Koz - Member of Modern Mingle

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